the effect of being busy

This week i was attending interviews and was busy.
Actually i didn't think much of sex.
Also i was feeling bit  insecure because of not being in a job.

I guess sex is not in your mind much when

1. you are terribly busy
2. when you  are feeling very afraid of your future.

Only when you relax, you think of enjoying.

When you have a goal and you are too focussed on your efforts and when your ego is too tied to the success and achievement of your goals, then sex is always a second priority.